If you want to marry, ensure that you are in your best personality because marriage is a game of personalities. This simply means that marriage thrives on the personalities of both spouses involved in it.
When singles attend pre-marriage counseling sessions with me, I lecture them on how personality helps in defining the outlook of a marital union.
Of course, nobody is perfect. Nobody is expected to be perfect before they marry or even expected to be a perfect spouse in a marriage. But then, intending spouses are to come into matrimony with at least a personality that allows bliss and wouldn't make the life of the other partner miserable. No spouse deserves to be miserable because they are married to someone. Please understand that.
When singles attend pre-marriage counseling sessions with me, I lecture them on how personality helps in defining the outlook of a marital union.
Of course, nobody is perfect. Nobody is expected to be perfect before they marry or even expected to be a perfect spouse in a marriage. But then, intending spouses are to come into matrimony with at least a personality that allows bliss and wouldn't make the life of the other partner miserable. No spouse deserves to be miserable because they are married to someone. Please understand that.
Before I got married, I really worked on myself. You may want to know the areas I worked on. I hope this would help in your own preparation:
1) Temperament
2) Emotional intelligence
3) Mental stability
4) Physical health
5) Spiritual vibrancy
6) Financial strength
7) Respectability
8) Honesty
9) Tolerance
10) Patience
11) Determination
12) Vision
13) Communication
14) Humour
15) Forgiveness.
1) Temperament
2) Emotional intelligence
3) Mental stability
4) Physical health
5) Spiritual vibrancy
6) Financial strength
7) Respectability
8) Honesty
9) Tolerance
10) Patience
11) Determination
12) Vision
13) Communication
14) Humour
15) Forgiveness.
Can you see that all the above boil down to personality? Marital success can't be unconnected to a great personality.
Now here's another gist: You don't have to possess 100% of all the above-listed qualities. Not at all. Just possess like 50% of each of them and you are sure on your way to a great marriage.
These are in a nutshell the recipe for a great marriage.
I hope you have learned something today? Please share so others can benefit too.
Now here's another gist: You don't have to possess 100% of all the above-listed qualities. Not at all. Just possess like 50% of each of them and you are sure on your way to a great marriage.
These are in a nutshell the recipe for a great marriage.
I hope you have learned something today? Please share so others can benefit too.
Photo credit; Times of india
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