The Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from God.
So how do you search for a wife and get the one you desired?
1) Grow yourself possibly in all areas of your life. Are you ready to be a husband and a brother to your wife? Only a husband-ready man can handle a wife-ready woman in marriage.
2) You should have a good relationship with God. By keeping a good relationship with God, the Holy Spirit will be your compass and help you find the kind of woman you want to marry.
3) Discover yourself, your mission, your goal, your vision, and your purpose for the marriage so that you can choose the suitable woman to walk with you. Not everyone is willing and ready to go where you are going.
4) Have a good standing, a good name, and good character. This is the most attractive thing about a man to a grown woman. Your woman wants to know if she is safe with you.
5) Relate well with ladies in non-sexual ways, it gives them the opportunity to see how responsible you can be to a woman. This will help you to learn how to respect women and see them beyond their bodies. Respecting your wife is important as well as respecting other women.
6) Know your worth and greatness before thinking about marriage. Meaning, you won't settle for just any kind of woman that comes your way but one who is deserving of your Kingship, leadership, and love. A King is very selective so he can make a good choice.
7) Don't make relationships, dating advances on any lady who comes your way. Go for a woman who has demonstrated she is worth being with a man. Don't cheapen your words and efforts by dishing them out to any woman on your social media inbox, someone you met in the streets, at a birthday party or wedding ceremony, or in your estate. Don't see this as a game, but joined together life and destiny.
8) Be busy being with someone positive, either for personal growth and development. You will find her busy being herself with something positive too.
9) Don't rush to propose and get married to a woman in desperation. Being too forceful can chase a good woman away from your life. No Lady wants to be pressured to say yes to a marriage proposal.
10) Be ready to be a responsible husband and father to the family, and to keep the woman you find. Once you win her heart from the beginning, it doesn't mean you stop caring for her heart while in courtship.
11) A good woman brings favor, when you have her in your life, allow her into your life to be a blessing to you as your wife. Don't fight her or put up walls to keep her from you because this will negatively affect your marriage.
Is better you remained single if you will not give her access and authority to grow you and grow with you in the marriage.
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